Bringing More Realism to Sex Information
It is understandable that women’s sexuality is misrepresented by the media. We all watch films and read books in part to be entertained. We don’t necessarily want to see real-life because we know what that’s like and it’s often depressing. We want to be uplifted by a fantasy view of the world.
Unfortunately this huge gap between sexual fantasy and reality means that men and women today are often disappointed when real life does not match these fantasy portrayals of sex. Until we change our sexual expectations, sex will always be taboo because we end up feeling inadequate.
One sex expert admitted that sex information is appallingly bad today but, as he put it, he is not prime minister and so cannot change what people think. I suppose it’s like global warming. We all feel that the problem is so huge that no one individual can do anything to change it.
I disagree. I don’t see why organisations that advise the public, especially young people, should not start publishing the truth. Likewise, erotic literature, as a form of fiction, can reflect our fantasies but books that are intended to inform us should reflect the known facts about women’s sexuality.
Very few sources today offer explanations or advice to couples on the basis of the facts that Shere Hite highlighted in the 1970′s. So today young people are still not told that intercourse is rarely orgasmic for women or that a woman is likely to struggle with orgasm with a partner by any means. Read the rest of this entry »
The Problem With Sex Information Today
It is often suggested today that an orgasm is so easy that every woman achieves it as if female sexuality is identical to male sexuality. And yet we all know that women don’t approach sex with the same genital erection (of the clitoris) that men tend to have so how can women hope to orgasm during sex as easily as men do?
The suggestion, that women need a good relationship and a considerate lover to enjoy sex, implies a difference. The suggestion that orgasm is unimportant, also implies different sexual expectations because this advice is NEVER given to men.
Many women dislike the eroticism that leads to enjoying sexual arousal and so they do not understand why anyone would want to stimulate their genitals. Consequently, experts continue to advise that woman’s sexual arousal with a partner depends more on her emotions and her relationship rather than on any appreciation of eroticism even though this is contrary to the male experience of arousal and orgasm.
Since female sexuality (for heterosexuals) is not associated with genital stimulation (of the clitoris), experts recommend panting exercises or flexing pelvic or buttock muscles. The fact that women need clitoral stimulation for orgasm is often missing completely.
Women are sometimes advised to eliminate distracting or negative thoughts (imagine needing to tell men to do this!) when approaching sex with a partner. There is no appreciation of how women can use sexual fantasies to achieve sexual arousal. Read the rest of this entry »
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